A Gestalt Therapy Approach To Shame And Self-Righteousness: Theory And Methods.

Abstract

Shame and self-righteousness are intrapsychic dynamics that help the individual defend against a rupture in relationship. This article discusses how, from a life script perspective, shame is comprised of the script belief 'Something is wrong with me', formed as a result of messages and decisions, conclusions in response to impossible demands, and defensive hope and control. In addition, from a Gestalt therapy perspective, shame involves a diminished self-concept in confluence with criticism, a defensive transposition of sadness and fear, and disavowal and retroflection of anger. Furthermore, shame may be an archaic fixation or an introjection. The suggestion is made that self-righteousness is the denial of a need for relationship. A contact - oriented relationship psychotherapy that emphasises methods of inquiry, attunement, and involvement is described.

Erskine, R., 1995 A Gestalt Therapy Approach To Shame And Self-Righteousness: Theory And Methods. British Gestalt Journal 4.2 pp107-117